See also
 sites.google.com/site/noonprop8events/Home/orange-county-events   No on Prop 8 Events - Orange County
noonprop8events.ning.com/group/orangecounty
ocequality.ning.com Orange County Equality Coalition
meetup.com/ocequality/calendar

Proposition 8 Is Keeping Same-Sex Couples From Marrying, But It Has United OC's Gay Community

By Spencer Kornhaber

Published on November 18, 2009 at 11:27am

 
http://www.ocweekly.com/2009-11-19/news/proposition-8-ocec/1

Hello all. I have been collecting photos for awhile for our OC Pride picnic, but an idea was submitted to me this weekend that I thought was outstanding and that was to not only show Prop 8 photos, but to display couple's wedding photos too. I've already got a few, but I want more more more. 

In addition to that, I would still like to see some children's artwork displayed. I am looking for what Equality or Pride means to children. So far I only have one confirmed entry from a child so I really need some more of this too.

Please pass the word around and have people get in contact with me if they can help out with either thing. Time is of the essence, so the sooner the better as I need time to put this all together too. 

I can be reached at this email address: noonprop8oc@gmail.com

Thanks!! Much appreciated!

Greg

EqualityForAllHi All,
This is late notice of an important rally held by strong supporters of the “NoOnProp8” campaign, who will be steadfast coalition partners with us in the future, both financially and as volunteers.  It is important that we support their cause in their moment of need.

Harvey
ECCO Vice-chair
PFLAG Board Member

The UNITE HERE! Local 11 Disney Action is taking place on:

Tuesday, July 14th from 4:30pm until 6 pm at EITHER the front of the Paradise Pier Hotel (1717 S. Disneyland Drive, Anaheim 92802) OR in front of the Anaheim Convention Center on Katella Ave.

Please come out to support the more than 2,100 employees of the three Disneyland Hotels: Paradise Pier, Grand Californian, and Disneyland Hotel.  They clean the rooms, cook and serve the food, wash the dishes, and carry the luggage.  And at this moment they are in the fight of their lives.

Disney is Faithful to its Shareholders.  Disney is enormously profitable, even in these hard times.  Disney’s net income in the first half of FY2009 was nearly $1.46 billion.  Disney’s leaders are among the highest paid in the world.  In FY2008, Disney CEO Robert Iger made $30.6 million.

Disney benefits from public subsidies.  Last month the Anaheim City Council approved a $40 million tax subsidy for two new hotel developments that Disney was reportedly in negotiations to manage and operate under its brand.

Disney, Be Faithful to your Employees

1.  Disney wants to take away their affordable family health insurance.  They could be forced to pay $500 a month for family health insurance that is free to many of them today.  Few of them can afford this on our modest wages.  Many families will lose their insurance.

2. Disney wants to take away full-time jobs, forcing many of their employees into “casual regular” positions with no health insurance at all, no stability, no seniority, no vacation and no rights.

3. Disney’s demands are unprecedented in the unionized Hotel industry in California and set a dangerous precedent for all hotel workers.

HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN DO!!

March with US!  The Disneyland Hotel Workers invite you join them in a March for Economic Justice at the Disneyland Hotels, Tuesday, July 14, 4:30pm, in front of the Convention Center on Katella Blvd or the Paradise Pier Hotel.

Sign the Pledge to Boycott Disney Hotels.  If they decide to strike or call a boycott in the coming weeks and months, let them and Disney know that you will respect their decision.

Take word of their struggle back to your community, and ask them to sign the pledge as well. You can also sign the pledge at DisneyBeFaithful.org.

If you have any questions, feel free to contact Anthony Navarrete at anavarrete@occord.org or (619) 307 -3445

~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*
Anthony Navarrete

Community Organizer

Orange County Communities Organized for Responsible Development (OCCORD)

13252 Garden Grove Blvd., Suite 200

Garden Grove,

714-621-0919 – phone

619-307-3445 – cell

714-750-2683 – fax

anavarrete@occord.org


CALIFORNIA SUPREME COURT UPHOLDS PROPOSITION 8, AMENDING CONSTITUTION
18,000 Same Sex Marriages Remain Valid

ORANGE COUNTY, CA – The Orange County Equality Coalition (“OCEC”) is deeply disturbed that discrimination has now been enshrined into our state’s constitution and deeply concerned about the effect of this ruling on its membership and on the LGBT community in Orange County. We are gratified that the court unanimously upheld the 18,000 marriages and reaffirmed its prior holding that sexual orientation is a suspect classification. However, relegating gays and lesbians to "domestic partnerships" going forward enshrines the kind of second class citizenship into the Constitution that is deeply destructive of the dignity interests of gays and lesbians and their families.

OCEC was formed in the wake of Proposition 8 and now has approximately 300 members and 1,000 people receiving its emails. OCEC predicts that its membership base will be re-energized by the challenges faced in the wake of the court’s ruling today.

“The legal significance of this ruling is far-reaching,” said Professor M. Katherine Baird Darmer of Chapman University School of Law and Chair of OCEC’s legal team. As dissenting justice Moreno noted, “’requiring discrimination against a minority group on the basis of a suspect classification strikes at the core of the promise of equality that underlies our Constitution.’ By failing to prevent a slim voter majority from taking a fundamental right away from the minority, the majority has allowed itself to become complicit in enshrining fundamental discrimination into the Constitution itself. This is a sad day for minority rights in our state and in our country.”

Darmer noted that gays and lesbians remain particularly vulnerable, because federal protections for gays and lesbians are minimal. Before today, gays and lesbians were able to rely on state level protections in California. “Now, those protections are enjoyed only at the whim of the majority.”

“This ruling conflicts with everything that fair-minded people believe in,” said BJ Davis, Chair of the Orange County Equality Coalition. “I know that people will look back on this as a time when fear and bigotry overtook the higher principles of dignity, equality and mutual respect that are important to all Californians,” she continued. “Today, in light of the Supreme Court decision, we are more committed than ever to establishing marriage equality for all.”

The Orange County Equality Coalition together with our coalition partners The Center Orange County, Elections Committee of the County of Orange, Harvey Milk Stonewall Democrats OC, California Faith for Equality, and the Democratic Party of Orange County will be holding a rally this evening at the Old County Courthouse in Santa Ana at 6:00 pm.

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Subject: [OCEC-Interfaith] Spiritual Care - 24 Hour Care Line - Open Sanctuaries
Date: Mon, 25 May 2009 08:58:13 -0700
From: AJ Blackwood (Aretelife) E4A <equality4all@aretelife.com>
Reply-To: OCEC-Interfaith@yahoogroups.com

If you have resources you want listed please let me know ASAP.

Please note and publish …

Care Line hosted by Orange Coast UU Church (If you need someone to talk to please call 24 hours.

 - This line is available for people who are in distress and need care.  This is NOT a general information line.  It will be open 24 hours.

- During the rest of May and June, this line will be open for all Orange County Residents.  We will have our OCUUC pastoral care team answering this line. We will provide an initial pastoral care response as well as refer to pastoral care team of other UU and faith traditions.

877-228-5490

Open Sanctuary Hours (Open for pray, meditation, and fellowship.)

- During these hours we will have pastoral care members available for drop-in.

Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Laguna Beach

429 Cypress Drive

Laguna Beach, CA

(949) 497-4568

Rev Kent Doss - minister@uulagunabeach.org

Tuesday, May 26 1:00 pm—5:00 pm

Wednesday, May 27 4:00 pm—7:00 pm

Thursday, May 28 4:00 pm—7:00 pm

 

Orange Coast UU Church

1259 Victoria St

Costa Mesa, CA 923627

www.ocuuc.org

Rev Dr Karen Stoyanoff - minister@ocuuc.org

AJ Blackwood - internminister@ocuuc.org

 

Tuesday, May 26 1:00 pm—5:00 pm

Wednesday, May 27 4:00 pm—7:00 pm

Thursday, May 28 4:00 pm—7:00 pm 


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Subject: OverturnProp8Update: MAJOR--CA Supreme Court will announce Prop 8 ruling Tues, 5/26 @ 10am; Plus TONIGHT Screening of OUTRAGE
Date: Fri, 22 May 2009 14:42:15 -0700
From: Harvey Liss <harveybronx@cox.net>


Equality for ALL!FINALLY!  The CA Supreme Court just announced that they will publish their Prop 8 ruling Tuesday (5/26) at 10am.  Regardless of their ruling, we are staging a giant, peaceful rally on Tuesday, May 26 @ 6pm in front of the Old Orange County Courthouse to celebrate or to mourn (just momentarily), and be invigorated for the inevitable battle ahead, whatever the outcome (details below).

 

And Special Screening TONIGHT of OUTRAGE.  RSVP Immediately if you can attend.

 

Harvey

ECCO Vice-chair

PFLAG Board Member

 

Section 1: Events

Friday, May 22 @ 7pm, Santa Ana, Rally & Special screening of OUTRAGE, a documentary indicting the hypocrisy of closeted gay politicians with appalling gay rights voting records, at South Coast Village Regency 3 Theater, 1561 W. Sunflower Avenue, SA. Hosted by The Harvey Milk Stonewall Democrats of Orange County and ECCO.  (The movie will actually begin at 7:45pm)

PLEASE RSVP IMMEDIATELY to 714.317.8122 as seating is limited for this event.  If we get enough people, it will be shown in a larger screening room.  Tickets will cost $10 and a portion of the proceeds will go to support education and outreach for the LGBT community in Orange County.

From Academy Award-nominated documentary filmmaker Kirby Dick (This Film Is Not Yet Rated) comes OUTRAGE, a searing indictment of the hypocrisy of closeted politicians with appalling gay rights voting records who actively campaign against the LGBT community they covertly belong to. Boldly revealing the hidden lives of some of the United States’ most powerful policy makers, OUTRAGE takes a comprehensive look at the harm they’ve inflicted on millions of Americans, and examines the media’s complicity in keeping their secrets. With analysis from prominent members of the gay community such as Congressman Barney Frank, former NJ Governor Jim McGreevey, activist Larry Kramer, radio personality Michelangelo Signorile, and openly gay congresswoman Tammy Baldwin (Representative, Wisconsin 2nd district), OUTRAGE probes deeply into the psychology of this double lifestyle, the ethics of outing closeted politicians, the double standards that the media upholds in its coverage of the sex lives of gay public figures, and much more.

Tuesday, May 26 @ 6pm, Santa Ana, Peaceful Rally at the Old Orange County Courthouse (historic, red, sandstone and granite building dedicated in 1901)  211 W. Santa Ana Blvd. (bet. N. B’way and N. Sycamore) Santa Ana, CA 92701

            Front view of the Old Court House.This event is being planned and sponsored by a coalition of OCEC, ECCO, Laguna Beach Dem Club, The Center OC, HRC, Harvey Milk Democratic Club.

We will gather in front of the Old Orange County Courthouse at 6-pm, and after a few speakers, we will march to the Plaza of the Flags (see map, below) to continue our rally.

March Route:  After a few speakers, we are marching from the Old Courthouse on Broadway, North to Civic Center Dr.; then West to Ross; then South to the walkway leading (Westerly) to Plaza of the Flags (an internal plaza not bounded by a city street).  After our rally we will continue South on Ross to 4th St.; then East to Broadway, returning to the Old Courthouse from where we will disperse.

Plaza of the FlagsLine Callout 2 (No Border): Old Orange County Courthouse

 

Events are also planned for the days immediately following the decision. Updates will be posted on www.ocequality.ning.com and www.eccopac.org.

 

Saturday, May 30 @ 1pm, Fresno, Peaceful Rally, Fresno City Hall, 2600 Fresno Street, 93721

Meet in the Middle 4 Equality

Why Fresno?  The battle for equality has to be fought in towns like Fresno, CA — not only in gay-friendly cities like San Francisco and Los Angeles. California's Central Valley population is far more reflective of national attitudes towards LBGT Equality and until we engage the communities of "middle-America," LBGT persons will not gain the full equality they deserve.

OCEC is organizing carpools and caravans to go to Fresno for Meet in the Middle for Equality!  www.ocequality.ning.com







 

 

Saturday, May 30 @ 5-7pm, Irvine, Irvine United Congregational Church, 4915 Alton Pkwy, Irvine, CA, OCEC Special Event with Lt. Dan Choi, OC native, West Point grad., deployed in Iraq, who was recently discharged from the Army after he announced he was gay on the Rachel Maddow Show.  He has been seen and heard singing with Men Alive (and maybe he’ll sing for those of us who are not going to Fresno).

Dan Choi

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We need volunteers for Decision Day (Tuesday- 5/26)!!

We are looking for married same-sex couples and same-sex couples that want to get married to participate in this rally (to celebrate or mourn).  If you would like to stand together with your community on this famous or infamous evening, we would like to involve as many couples as possible in our peaceful demonstration.

NEED Volunteers: for crowd communication.

Volunteers, please contact: Archer Altstaetter 714-225-0396 or BJ Davis at bjdavis76@gmail.com, or Harvey Liss harveybronx@cox.net with your cell phone number.  In any case, volunteers, you can just show up at 4pm in front of the Old Orange County Courthouse, at the cannon.

 

Section 2: News

 

>> States that can legally marry same-sex couples:

Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont, Maine and New Hampshire?...almost

>> Prediction on Prop 8 ruling:  Mary Ellen Waller, an attorney with Feinberg & Waller, has written that the media may have read this one wrong, noting that it is ill-advised to simply look to the oral arguments themselves to make a determination of the outcome, as there is likelihood that the vote on Proposition 8 will be overturned. "It is foreseeable that the Court will rule that the people have an inalienable right to amend the Constitution as they see fit, but a change to core constitutional guarantees of equal protection of the Constitution that would selectively deprive a disfavored suspect class of fundamental rights must be subject to the rigors of the Constitutional revision process," she said.

Section 3: Links to Related Organizations

 

ocequality.ning.com

Orange County Equality Coalition (OCEC)

 

www.eccopac.org

Elections Committee of the County of Orange

 

tell-three.org

Tell 3 campaign:  That is, tell three people in your life about what marriage of same-sex couples means to you.  Choose someone who might not be completely supportive. Tell Three is about engaging the people whom we need to educate about the freedom to marry.

 

Get three people to join the Tell 3 campaign and talk to three people in their own lives about what marriage of same-sex couples means to them.  This action could not be more important to gaining a groundswell of support for marriage equality.

 

GetToKnowUsFirst.org

This is a terrific organization that has produced 30-second public interest TV announcements.  They need your support:  See the videos at:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GhpdcqNB3SY

 

www.ALLorNotAtAll.org

ALLorNotAtAll launches the "I Do!" Campaign.

Our goal is to proactively educate the public about same-sex civil marriage, but we'll be tackling a number of different issues from a number of different angles.  For example, while we are going to be correcting the false and misleading perceptions perpetuated from the Yes on 8 folks, we believe it also critical to explain the real issues.

Using a combination of "real" folks and recognizable celebrities, we are producing a series of Public Service Announcements tackling some of the main inequities that currently exist.  >From hospital visitation rights to survivor benefits to health insurance coverage, we are going to educate California and the rest of the country about why it is so critical to extend marriage rights to every citizen, regardless of their sexuality.

ALLorNotAtAll.org exists to make sure that the constitutional rights of every citizen are protected equally by making civil marriage legal for everyone, regardless of sexual orientation. We will do this through education and outreach and our primary tool will be the truth.

Either we all stand together or we succeed not at all.






Greetings friends,

OCEC is involved in so many events that it is impossible to keep up! Invites will be soon sent out to our May 30th meeting with special guest Lt. Dan Choi. In the meantime, you can rsvp on our website at http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://ocequality.ning.com/events/ocec-special-event-with-lt-dan.

We will also have tables this weekend at the OC AIDS Walk in support of all of Team OCEC and all of the walkers and fundraisers who have helped to raise money for AIDS services. http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.kintera.org/faf/home/default.asp?ievent=297310

We will also be at Long Beach Pride! Stop by our booth and say hello at our inaugural pride booth! http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.longbeachpride.org/

Finally, please tell all your friends and families to join us at 6:00 pm at the Old Orange County Courthouse on the day the Supreme Court hands down its decision on prop 8.
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://ocequality.ning.com/events/decision-day
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://dayofdecision.wetpaint.com/page/Orange+County

We are also organizing to caravan to Fresno for Meet in the Middle, the first Saturday after the decision comes down.
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://www.meetinthemiddle4equality.com/
http://www.facebook.com/l/;http://ocequality.ning.com/group/meetinthemiddle4equalitycaravan

In solidarity,

Laura Kanter, on behalf of OCEC

Orange County Equality Coalitionequality ntwork
teach in
Quick Links
Upcoming OCEC Event!
"Potato Skins & Platform Shoes"
Teach-in for Equality and Breakfast with History
Remember back in high school how you learned about all those amazing Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgendered people in American history? Yeah, NEITHER DO WE! That's why it's critical that you attend this event, to learn about our SHARED HISTORY

On behalf of Equality Network, OCEC is honored to extend this invitation to what will certainly be an historic event.

We hope to see you there!


Teach-in for Equality:
Our Shared History

The Teach-in for Equality will be a day-long event where participants will learn about our LGBTQ community's shared history, and connect with their LGBTQ ancestors through a series of break-out sessions, performances, and speakers.

Guest speakers include Cleve Jones, Sheila Kuehl, Torie Osborn and many more.

If you're interested in meeting some of these speakers face-to-face and picking their brain for a while, we encourage you to sign up for the Breakfast with History event!


Event Info
Saturday, May 9, 2009
9:30 am - 5:00 pm
Plummer Park
7377 Santa Monica Blvd.
West Hollywood, CA
Phone: 310-880-7791
Email: david@equalitynetwork.org
view map

drag show wig
Potato Skins and Platform Shoes
Please join Team OCEC and help us raise money for the OC AIDS Walk.

Drag Show!
Raffle Prizes
Free Appetizers 7-8pm
Come in drag for fun
$15 Minimum Donation

Contact Vic Carmona 949-302-0210
Saturday, May 9, 2009
7:00 pm to 10:00 pm
Durty Nelly's Irish Pub
2915 Red Hill Ave
Costa Mesa, CA 92626



Subject: [OCProgressiveChristians] Raise $ for OCEC at counter-protest at Corona Del Mar High School TOMORROW!!!
Date: Fri, 24 Apr 2009 02:28:19 EDT
From: felicitynf@aol.com
Reply-To: OCProgressiveChristians@yahoogroups.com



I'm sure most of you have heard about the controversy surrounding the production of the musical "Rent" at Corona Del Mar High School. It finally opened there tonight; and tomorrow, Friday, the Westboro Baptist Church contingent from Kansas (yes, the ones that celebrate at gay servicemen's funerals) will be there protesting with their "God Hates Fags" signs! We invite all of you to come to the corner of East Bluff and Jamboree at 2pm and join in the counter-protest. PLUS: we have good news! Thanks to the work of the dedicated creator of the Phelps-A-Thon, the Westboro crowd will actually be raising money for OCEC and GSA students with every minute of their protest! To see how this works, please visit the web address below...and be sure to join us for the fun(d)-raising excitement tomorrow!
 
http://www.phelps-a-thon.com/newportbeach.html
 
For the background of the CDM situation, here is a synopsis:
 

At Corona del Mar High School, the musical Rent was scheduled to be performed by the students, then abruptly cancelled, apparently because of its gay content.  After major protests from alumni and the community, it was reinstated, and performances are now scheduled to begin on Thursday evening (tonight, sold out).  Nonetheless, the investigation of its cancellation and the publicity it generated brought to light a terribly homophobic environment at the high school.  In fact, the ACLU filed a lawsuit focusing on a threat by three CdM football players who threatened to rape and kill a female classmate, and used slurs to describe homosexuals, as well as cancellation of the play.  The lawsuit states that "School and district officials, through their action and inaction, have not only failed to take steps to address this hostile environment, but they have contributed to it and given sanction to it."

 

To make it crazier, on Friday afternoon, so-called Reverend Fred Phelps and his “God Hates Fags” Westboro Baptist Church (!)” family and friends have announced they will be at the high school to picket the play and support the homophobic environment.  According to their website (www.godhatesfags.com/schedule.htm):  Jews Killed Jesus, love fags! …WBC to picket this High School, and the goofy Jewish bastards who pretend they have a cause against the Lord and against His anointed.”  This is the same group that tried to disrupt the funerals of returning military service personnel.

 

Please come show your support for the CdM students who, gay, lesbian and straight, are also taking a stand for what is right.

2:15pm-3:15pm is when the Phelps folks are scheduled to stage their picket, according to their website; but there is no guarantee they will adhere to that.

6:30pm-7:00pm is when the Phelps folks are scheduled to picket according to their flier.

2:45pm the students get out of school.

6:30pm the cast and crew for the play, “Rent,” arrive.



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Subject: URGENT Actions: Opponents up 2-1! Call/Email NOW!

Dear Friends,

I'm forwarding an email from One Iowa. We need each and everyone of you to call and write State Legislators in Iowa to ask them not to repeal the Supreme Court's Decision. Please take some time to do it NOW and ask all your friends and family to do the same.

Yours affectionatley,
-Nakhone Keodar

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Our opponents are up two to one!

Iowa legislators are receiving thousands of e-mails from people who want to repeal the Supreme Court’s decision. Many people who support marriage equality have contacted their legislators, but we need many, many more.

Here are a few ways you can continue to show your support:

(1) Call House Majority Leader Kevin McCarthy at (515) 281-7497 and email him here: http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://eqfed.org%2Fcampaign%2FMcCarthy

Ask him not to push for a constitutional amendment repealing the Court's unanimous decision. Thank him for his previous support and ask him to stand again against discrimination.

Senate Majority Leader Mike Gronstal made an emotional appeal to his fellow legislators last night. We encourage his fellow legislators to follow his lead.

Check it out here: http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://www.http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://oneiowa.org%2Fweb%2FnewsEvents%2F2009%2F04%2Furgent-tuesday-actions%2F

2) E-mail or call your legislator. Email here: http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://eqfed.org%2Fcampaign%2Fleg_marriage.

Then find your legislators here: http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://www.legis.state.ia.us%2FFindLeg%2F

Call the Senate switchboard at (515) 281-3371 to connect with your State Senator and the House switchboard at (515) 281-3221 to connect with your State Representative.

(3) E-mail Governor Culver at http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://eqfed.org%2Fcampaign%2FGov_Culver
Then call him at 515-281-5211.

(4) Go to http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://oneiowa.org and contribute to our ongoing effort to uphold the ruling. www.http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http://oneiowa.org/web/common/donate/

-------- Original Message --------
Subject: Iowa Ruling
Date: Fri, 03 Apr 2009 15:00:19 -0500
From: Jonipher Kwong <jonipher@cafaithforequality.org>
Reply-To: jonipher@cafaithforequality.org


Iowa Supreme Court Rules in Favor of Marriage Equality

3 April 2009

The arc of the moral universe bent closer towards justice today after Iowa’s Supreme Court unanimously ruled in favor of marriage equality.  California Faith for Equality applauds this decision, making Iowa the third state (and the first Midwestern state) to take such a courageous position.  For a brief moment last year, California was the third state to grant marriage equality.  We continue to pray that the California Supreme Court will once again do the right thing and grant all Californians the right to marry. 

If you are in Southern California and would like to attend the celebration rally, here is the information: Friday, April 3, 2009, from 7-11 pm, Pocket Park for rally and Casita de Campo for victory party (both in Silverlake), Intersection of Sunset Blvd., Edgecliff Dr. and Griffith Park Blvd.


Civilization can only revive when there shall come into being in a number of individuals a new tone of mind, independent of the prevalent one among the crowds, and in opposition to it -- a tone of mind which will gradually win influence over the collective one, and in the end determine its character. Only an ethical movement can rescue us from barbarism, and the ethical comes into existence only in individuals.

--Albert Schweitzer



California Faith for Equality educates, supports and mobilizes California's communities of faith to promote lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equality in California and to safeguard religious freedom.


-------- Original Message --------
Subject: Urgent Meet in the Middle update and action needed
Date: Mon, 30 Mar 2009 19:47:29 -0800
From: Linda May <LindaMay@cox.net>


Just got off conference call with the Meet in the Middle organizers.  There were over 40 people statewide on the call.  Here is the priority.  Have push people to go to the web site and register to attend and/or to donate.  There is a huge outpouring of support for the Fresno Meet in the Middle event.  Cleve Jones calls this THE statewide post decision event.

 

http://meetinthemiddle4equality.com/trip_planner/index.html

 

OCEC is working on organizing buses, vans and cars.  There is a place on the registration site to register if you need or have transportation.

 

OCEC needs to be organizing a caravan of cars, vans and buses.

 

Anyone who has a van they are willing to take to Fresno the Saturday after the Supreme Court decision comes in, please contact me at lindamay@cox.net.  Anyone willing to drive a car please do the same.  Cost sharing will make the trip easy and fun.  Anyone know any church or other buses that can be donated?  If we can raise about $2,000 we can hire a bus from Orange County.  Any individual or businesses want to sponsor the Orange County Equality Coalition bus?  Signage on the side of the bus is available.

 

We need to send out an email blast right away to have people go to the website and register.  Who will send that out?  Laura?

OCEC must have a presence there!


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Subject: Come join me at Orange County Board of Supervisors Meeting on Orange County Equality Coalition
Date: Sun, 8 Mar 2009 05:32:02 +0000 (GMT)
From: OCEC <events@ocequality.ning.com>
Reply-To: OCEC <lwkanter@gmail.com>


Orange County Equality Coalition
because equality feels good
OCEC
OCEC has invited you to the event 'Orange County Board of Supervisors Meeting' on Orange County Equality Coalition!
 
The Chairman of the OC Board of Supervisors, right-wing conservative John Moorlach is going to attempt to cancel contracts that total over $300,000 with Planned Parenthood that were funded by tobacco

Orange County Board of Supervisors Meeting Time: March 10, 2009 all day
Location: BOARD HEARING ROOM, FIRST FLOOR
Organized By: Danielle Nava, Planned Parenthood Federation of America

Event Description:
Health education funding at risk!

WE NEED YOUR PRESENCE AND PHONE CALLS!
Next Tuesday, John Moorlach, Orange County Supervisor District 2, will bring an agenda item to the Board of Supervisors meeting that could drastically inhibit our ability to serve the community. He plans to single out Planned Parenthood by withholding more than $290,000 in health education funding. Services provided through the Health Education Program empower teens and young adults throughout our community to make informed, healthy, and responsible decisions about their health, and ultimately to reduce the incidence of unintended pregnancies, STIs, and tobacco use in Orange County. Any attempt by the supervisors to change the contract represents a breach of contract and an abuse of power on their behalf. At a time when people are losing their jobs and their medical coverage, Supervisor Moorlach wants to take hundreds of thousands of dollars away from primary health care resources.

We need you to take action to protect family planning and health education services in your community.

Please call or e-mail your County Supervisor to let them know you support Planned Parenthood and the health education services we provide under the Tobacco Settlement Funds (TSR) and immunization contracts.

We will be at that meeting and encourage all of you to attend as well.

Meeting Location and Date

9:30 a.m. MARCH 10
BOARD HEARING ROOM, FIRST FLOOR
333 W. Santa Ana Blvd., 10 Civic Center Plaza
Santa Ana, California

Contact Your
County Supervisor

District 1
Janet Nguyen
janet.nguyen@ocgov.com
714.834.3110
Cities in district: East Garden Grove, Santa Ana, Westminster

District 2
John Moorlach
district2@ocgov.com
714.834.3220
Cities in district: Costa Mesa, Cypress, Fountain Valley, West Garden Grove, Huntington Beach, La Palma, Los Alamitos, Newport Beach, Seal Beach, Stanton

District 3
Bill Campbell
bill.campbell@ocgov.com
714.834.3330
Cities in district: Anaheim Hills, Brea, Irvine, Orange, Tustin, Villa Park, Yorba Linda

District 4
Chris Norby
chris.norby@ocgov.com
714.834.3440
Cities in district: West Anaheim, Buena Park, Fullerton, La Habra, Placentia

District 5
Patricia C. Bates
(Board Chair)
patbates@ocgov.com
714.834.3550
Cities in district: Aliso Viejo, Dana Point, Laguna Beach, Laguna Hills, Laguna Niguel, Laguna Woods, Lake Forest, Mission Viejo, Rancho Santa Margarita, San Clemente, San Juan Capistrano


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-------- Original Message --------
Subject: OverturningProp8 Update: Next Event Tomorrow (Friday)
Date: Thu, 26 Feb 2009 17:28:05 -0800
From: Harvey Liss <harveybronx@cox.net>
To: 'Harvey Liss' <harveybronx@cox.net>


Equality for All!Hi All,

 

Important events beginning tomorrow.

 

Harvey

ECCO Vice-chair

PFLAG Board Member

 

 

 

Section 1: Events

 

Friday, Feb 27, 1:00 - 5:00 p.m., Orange, Chapman University School of Law, One University Drive, Orange, 92866, Kennedy Hall, Room 237 , (714) 628-2500

"Judicial Activism: Same Sex Marriage and the Aftermath of Proposition 8"

Professor Katherine Darmer, an intrepid defender of marriage equality will be on a panel with opponents of marriage equality, including a BYU professor, beginning at 3:30pm.  She will surely create the fireworks to make this exciting to behold.

Nexus: Chapman's Journal of Law and Policy presents this, its 2009 Symposium:

NO CHARGE FOR STUDENTS, FACULTY & VISITORS

RSVP to nexuslawjournal@gmail.com to pre-register for the Symposium

Hors d'oeuvres and drinks served between panels, with reception to follow

DETAILS: http://www.chapman.edu/law/students/nexus/2009_Symposium.asp

PANEL 1:  1:00-2:30 p.m.  Judicial Activism: Are Courts Entering Into the Political Policymaking Arena?

Judicial activism is defined "as a philosophy of judicial decision-making whereby judges allow their personal views about public policy, among other factors, to guide their decisions." Defenders of judicial activism argue that judges have a duty to protect minority groups and right error in law through their decisions. Critics of judicial activism argue that it usurps the power of the elected branches of government, thereby damaging the rule of law and democracy itself. [Of course, my own definition of an “Activist” judge is one who is the last resort against tyranny and fascism.-hl]

Moderated by Hugh Hewitt, Professor of Law, Chapman University School of Law, and the host of a nationally syndicated radio show.

INTERMISSION: 2:30-3:30 p.m.

Please join us in the Kennedy Hall law school lobby for hors d'oeuvres and drinks.

PANEL 2:  3:30-5:00 p.m.: Same-Sex Marriage and the Aftermath of California's Proposition 8

This panel, which includes our own Professor Katherine Darmer, Professor of Law, Chapman U. School of Law, will discuss the key issues that have arisen as a result of the series of events leading to the CA Supreme Court hearings on the petitions challenging Prop 8. Specifically, panelists will consider the legal issues surrounding Proposition 8 and whether the California Supreme Court has engaged in judicial activism.

The panel includes our own Professor Katherine Darmer, Professor of Law, Chapman University School of Law.

 

Saturday, Feb 28, 5:00 p.m., Irvine, Meeting of the Orange County Equality Coalition,  Irvine United Congregational Church, 4915 Alton Pkwy, 92614,

This month, we have an amazing guest speaker, David Codell, who was a member of the team that wrote the brief to the California Supreme Court resulting in the May 15, 2008 ruling that denying gay and lesbian couples the right to marry is unconstitutional.

 

7pm  (SAME LOCATION) Free screening of "The Times of Harvey Milk," sponsored by Local high school gay-straight alliances, OCEC (Orange County Equality Coalition) and Irvine United Congregational Church (IUCC)

Harvey Milk , Member of the San Francisco Board of Supervisors, and San Francisco Mayor George Moscone were assassinated by Supervisor Dan White on November 27, 1978. Milk's life leading up to his election, his successful efforts to politically represent San Francisco's gay community, and the city's reaction to the assassinations are documented with extensive news film and personal recollections.

Discussion and refreshments will follow the film.

ALL ARE WELCOME!

 

Wed, March 4,  5:30pm – 7pm,  Costa Mesa,:Eve of Justice,” the evening before the CA Supreme Court hearings on the validity of Prop 8 @ Fairview Community Church, 2525 Fairview Road, 92626

Sponsored by the Orange County Equality Coalition (OCEC) and California Faith for Equality, Co-sponsors Laguna Beach Democratic Club, ECCO (Elections Committee of the County of Orange) and HRC OC

Organizations around the state are holding an "Eve of Justice rally the evening before the Ca Supreme Court will be holding their televised hearings on the validity of Prop 8.

There will be re-commitment ceremonies for some of the 18,000 same-sex couples whose legally married status is on the line, and a candlelight vigil and rally for equal marriage rights in hope and praise of justice and liberty. There will also be a program of remarks by leading religious and legal figures in support of same-sex marriage rights, alternating with musical performances and the stories of real people affected by the passage of Proposition 8, told by the people themselves.

Please join us for what promises to be a powerful and moving event!

For further information, please contact the OCEC at ocequality@gmail.com or Jonipher at jonipher@cafaithforequality.org.

For more information and additional vigil locations go to www.eveofjustice.com or www.marriageequality.org

 

Thur, March 5,  9am – 12pm,  CA Supreme Court Hearing (San Francisco)

Television and Online Webcast
To increase public access to the court session, the Supreme Court has designated the California Channel This is an external link. Click this icon for our external linking policy., a public affairs cable network, to provide a live TV broadcast of the session.

 

Section 2: News

 

>>>The cancelled musical,“Rent,” to be put on at CDM High School has been uncancelled after a groundswell of support for the play and the homophobia that its cancellation implied.  Who cancelled it is now in dispute.  Presumably, the school principal did not expect the extreme community support for the play that occurred.  There’s hope, yet, for Newport Beach!!!

 

>>> MUST SEE: Openly gay Dustin Lance Black [Ctrl click to view]  won the Best Original Screenplay Oscar and  made the most amazing acceptance speech. It will put you in tears, as it did him (and me).

 

>>> Don't Divorce Us, a new video by the Courage Campaign, and a petition to the Supreme Court:  http://www.couragecampaign.org/page/s/divorce

 

Section 3: To Dos and Links to Related Organizations

 

tell-three.org

Tell 3 campaign:  That is, tell three people in your life about what marriage of same-sex couples means to you.  Choose someone who might not be completely supportive. Tell Three is about engaging the people whom we need to educate about the freedom to marry.

 

Get three people to join the Tell 3 campaign and talk to three people in their own lives about what marriage of same-sex couples means to them.  This action could not be more important to gaining a groundswell of support for marriage equality.

 

GetToKnowUsFirst.org

This is a terrific organization that has produced 30-second public interest TV announcements.  They need your support:  See the videos at:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GhpdcqNB3SY

 

www.ALLorNotAtAll.org

ALLorNotAtAll launches the "I Do!" Campaign.

Our goal is to proactively educate the public about same-sex civil marriage, but we'll be tackling a number of different issues from a number of different angles.  For example, while we are going to be correcting the false and misleading perceptions perpetuated from the Yes on 8 folks, we believe it also critical to explain the real issues.

Using a combination of "real" folks and recognizable celebrities, we are producing a series of Public Service Announcements tackling some of the main inequities that currently exist.  >From hospital visitation rights to survivor benefits to health insurance coverage, we are going to educate California and the rest of the country about why it is so critical to extend marriage rights to every citizen, regardless of their sexuality.

ALLorNotAtAll.org exists to make sure that the constitutional rights of every citizen are protected equally by making civil marriage legal for everyone, regardless of sexual orientation. We will do this through education and outreach and our primary tool will be the truth.

Either we all stand together or we succeed not at all.

 

 

Section 4: Useful Info (repeated from previous newsletter)

 

Why Isn’t Domestic Partnership (or Civil Union) Good Enough?

The New Jersey State Commission on Civil Unions was formed by the state legislature when it adopted the civil union law in 2006.  It issued a report based on 18 months of public meetings and the written or oral testimony of over 150 witnesses about the appropriateness of maintaining a separate civil status for same-sex couples. The Commission concluded that New Jersey should offer full marriage rights to same-sex couples.
(A commission studying civil unions in Vermont reached similar conclusions in April 2008.)

FULL REPORT:  http://www.nj.gov/lps/dcr/downloads/CURC-Final-Report-.pdf

MAJOR DIFFERENCES Between Domestic Partnership or Civil Union and MARRIAGE
taken from the NJ State Commission on Civil Unions report:

1) Why civil unions and domestic partnerships fail within the granting state, for example:

a)      SECOND-CLASS STATUS: The New Jersey Commission concluded that a separate legal structure can never be truly equal. It found that the state's use of a separate status to confer marriage-like benefits reinforced the "second-class status" of gays and lesbians, sending the message "that it is permissible to discriminate against them."

b)      NOT UNIVERSALLY UNDERSTOOD: Civil unions fail to capture the intangible benefits of marriage, which is a status that is "universally understood" and has a "powerful meaning." Civil unions, in contrast, are frequently misunderstood and undermined, the Commission found.  For example, Witnesses described situations "in which they were forced to explain their civil union status, what a civil union is, and how it is designed to be equivalent to marriage. These conversations include the indignities of having to explain the legal nature of their relationship, often in times of crisis.

c)      FORMS: Government, employer, or health care forms do not address or appropriately deal with the status of being in a civil union.

d)      CHILDREN: Children are worse off for their parents being consigned to civil union status, rather than afforded the status of marriage.  Health experts testified about the psychological harm that second-class systems can place on children being raised in same-sex families, especially those children who are themselves gay, lesbian, or transgender.

2) No federal benefits under DOMA, for example:

a)      TAXES: Couples must file separate federal tax returns

b)      IMMIGRATION: A civil union with a non-citizen does not affect the latter's immigration status

c)      SOCIAL SECURITY benefits to the surviving spouse, which are typically huge, are not provided

d)      INVALID IN ANOTHER STATE: Most states have passed statutes or constitutional amendments prohibiting the recognition by the state of same-sex marriage, even if validly celebrated elsewhere, so, for example, hospital visitation rights to an injured spouse in case of an automobile accident in another state would not necessarily be granted.

Other federal benefits

As of Dec 31, 2003, research of the USGAO identified a total of 1,138 federal statutory provisions classified to the U. S. Code in which marital status is a factor in determining or receiving benefits, rights, and privileges.

CATEGORY 1—SOCIAL SECURITY AND RELATED PROGRAMS, HOUSING, AND FOOD STAMPS

In many of these programs, recognition of the marital relationship is integral to the design of the program. For example, the law establishing the Old Age, Survivors, and Disability Insurance program (Social Security)

CATEGORY  2—VETERANS' BENEFITS

Include pensions, indemnity compensation for service-connected deaths, medical care, nursing home care, right to burial in veterans' cemeteries, educational assistance, and housing. Husbands or wives of veterans have many rights and privileges by virtue of the marital relationship.

CATEGORY  3—TAXATION

The distinction between married and unmarried status is pervasive in federal tax law; this is one of the largest categories, with 179 provisions.

CATEGORY  4—FEDERAL CIVILIAN AND MILITARY SERVICE BENEFITS

Typically these laws address the various health, leave, retirement, survivor, and insurance benefits provided by the United States to those in federal service and their families.

CATEGORY  5—EMPLOYMENT BENEFITS AND RELATED LAWS

The rights of employees under employer-sponsored employee benefit plans that provide for continuation of employer-sponsored health benefits after events like the death or divorce of the employee;

CATEGORY  6—IMMIGRATION, NATURALIZATION, AND ALIENS

Laws governing which non-citizens may enter and remain in the United States, be deported, etc.

CATEGORY  7—INDIANS

Right of a surviving spouse who is neither an Indian nor a member of the deceased spouse's tribe to elect a life estate in property that he or she is occupying at the time of the death of the other spouse.

CATEGORY  8—TRADE, COMMERCE, AND INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY

It permits spouses to file jointly for bankruptcy protection.

CATEGORY  9—FINANCIAL DISCLOSURE AND CONFLICT OF INTEREST

Employees or officers of the federal government confer rights to their spouses.

CATEGORY 10—CRIMES AND FAMILY VIOLENCE

Spouses as victims of crimes

CATEGORY 11—LOANS, GUARANTEES, AND PAYMENTS IN AGRICULTURE

Spouse's income and amount of benefits depends on marital status

CATEGORY 12—FEDERAL NATURAL RESOURCES AND RELATED LAWS

National battlefields, monuments, seashores, or parks that are donated or sold to the gov’t.  A person who donates one of these to the government can continue to live on the property until death, at which time that right passes on to the “married” spouse.  An unmarried spouse gets tossed off.

CATEGORY 13—MISCELLANEOUS

e.g., VFW have as one of their purposes to assist the widows and children of servicemen.  The 1,138 laws do not include every individual law in the U. S. Code in which marital status figures.  However, the GAO believes that the probability is high that it has identified those programs in the Code in which marital status is a factor.



----- Original Message -----
From: Chris Hunt
To: cbhunt@gmail.com
Sent: Tuesday, February 24, 2009 12:04 PM
Subject: Fwd: Say "I do" support equal rights to marry

OH DEAR - my DATE was wrong - the city council meeting is NEXT WEEK - not today!!!

So Sorry,

chris

---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Chris Hunt <chrisnlynn@cox.net>
Date: Tue, Feb 24, 2009 at 10:19 AM
Subject: Fwd: Say "I do" support equal rights to marry
To: cbhunt@gmail.com


If you aren't busy at 5:00 pm not today next Tuesday here is your big change to stand up to bigotry (again)!!

Hugs,

Chris
---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Barbara McMurray <mcmurray@me.com>
Date: Mon, Feb 23, 2009 at 9:32 PM
Subject: Say "I do" support equal rights to marry
To: recipients <Undisclosed>


The City of Laguna Beach supported "No on Prop 8," and is now being taken to task for it by a vociferous few. Tomorrow night (Tuesday) these bigoted individuals are going to show their faces prior to the City Council meeting to try to shame our leaders for the City's logical stance on this measure. If you care to take an hour ot two out of your evening to come down and take a stand for equal marriage for all, please do. The link below from Audrey Prosser will fill in the details. 

Let's say no, again, to bullying tactics and narrow-mindedness. 

Thank you. 

Barbara

Begin forwarded message:

From: Audrey Prosser <prosserga@gmail.com>
Date: February 23, 2009 4:53:23 PM PST
To: Prosserga@gmail.com

Here comes the bigots.  We need to get the word out and get all of our friends there to greet them.  It looks like they will be outside City Hall at 5:00 PM.  The City Council meeting starts at 6:00 PM.  At the beginning of the CC meeting, anyone can speak. They usually allow 3 minutes per person. We need to thank and support the CC for joining the lawsuit to overthrow Prop 8.  It was a unanimous vote.  I am sure all of you can think of reasons that you support the City Council’s action to join in the fight to overthrow Prop 8 so be prepared to tell them.  
 
Bring your signs to greet the protestors.
 

Subject: OverturningProp8 Update
Date: Fri, 13 Feb 2009 18:39:08 -0800
From: Harvey Liss <harveybronx@cox.net>


Equlity for ALL!On Jan 24, I attended a “summit” conference of about 400 seething people representing 141 organizations in California, to discuss based on what we all learned from the failed NoOnProp8 campaign what we can now do restore marriage equality in California and throughout the U.S.  See Section 5, below, for my greatly summarized findings.

 

The conclusion is that fear of marriage equality for same-sex couples is fundamentally based on homophobia (duh!).  The way to counter this is for everyone to get to know gays and lesbians, their families and their families’ needs.  So, going forward, there will be great efforts for all LGBT persons and their allies to inform as many people as possible within their families and among friends, co-workers and neighbors.  See Section 3 on what you can do.

 

Section 4 Summarizes major differences between Marriage and Domestic Partnership.

 

Harvey

ECCO Vice-chair

PFLAG Board Member

 

Section 1: Events

 

Monday, Feb 16  Noon  Sacramento: Love and Marriage Rally

Pre-rally begins at noon, Program from 1pm – 3pm California State Capitol, Sacramento, CA 95814

Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender Californians and their allies will descend on the State Capitol in Sacramento for a rally and lobby day.  Special guests at the Love and Marriage Rally include Gloria Allred, Margaret Cho, Julia Louis-Dreyfuss, Sen. Mark Leno, Wanda Sykes, George Takei, and many more!

Tuesday, Feb 17  8:00am  Sacramento: Marriage Lobby Day 2009  California State Capitol

Join activists from across the state for a legislative lobby day at the California State Capitol. Urge legislators to support SR 7 (Leno) and HR 5 (Ammiano), companion resolutions that would put the Legislature on record as opposing Proposition 8 as an invalid revision to the State Constitution. Let them know that you or someone you know is one of thousands of LGBT Californians who deserve their support and equal treatment under the law.

If you’re unable to attend the lobby day (or even if you’ll be there!) act now and send your legislators a message to support marriage equality and sign onto SR7 or HR5 as a co-author.

The event is free and open to all. Each participant will receive a lobbying training, advocacy materials, and be assigned to an experienced group leader.  See below.

Event Schedule and Activities on Tuesday

Meet us at 8am Crest Theater, 1013 K Street.  On the K Street Mall (pedestrian only, closed to traffic) at 10th Street, just a block from the State Capitol.

  8:00am     Registration (Crest Theatre) Open until 2 p.m.

  9:00am     Lobbying Training (Crest Theatre)

11:30am      Lunch (On your own) 

12:15pm      Rally (Capitol Building West Steps)

  1:00pm     Lobby visits start, activity stations (Various Locations)

  1:15pm     Additional Lobbying Training (Crest Theatre)

  4:00pm     Informal debrief (Crest Theatre)

Special Instructions:

Once you register, we will make the appointment for your afternoon lobby visit. During the morning training you will be divided into teams. To the extent possible, we will give the legislative offices the names of each person in the team coming to their office ahead of time.

For the visit with your representative, please come in business attire, which means slacks and a nice shirt, or equivalent.  Also, please check the weather ahead of time. 

Activities:

One of the goals of Overturn 8 Lobby Day is to reflect the diverse faces and stories of Californians who support marriage for LGBT couples. Take action at many of the activity stations in the afternoon:

*                               Letter Writing: Write a personal message to your legislator or hometown paper. Talk about how the passage of Prop 8 made you and your family feel -- or what marriage means to you. Writing materials plus talking points will be available. You do the writing -- we'll make sure your letters get delivered.

*                               Activate Your Personal Network: Call, email, text, twitter—do whatever it takes to urge your friends back home to contact their legislator's local district office about the importance of marriage equality! We’ll provide WiFi, laptops and power outlets.

*                               Speak Your Piece: Record a one minute video message to the Assembly and Senate Judiciary Committees. We will compile the clips to deliver to the Senate and Judiciary committees when the resolutions are heard a week or two after Lobby Day.

*                               Remember Me When You’re Voting: Get your picture taken (alone or in group) holding a message for your legislators. A great way to thank legislators or remind them that this issue is about our lives, our equality!

*                               Visibility Action: Grab signs or create your own and wave them in a group at the Capitol to show your support for the freedom to marry. Materials will be provided.

*                               Blogging: We’ll have laptops and WiFi for anyone who wants to blog about the day!

*                               Hospitality Bar: Grab a soda or coffee at the snack bar with an experienced Lobby Day attendee. Share your experiences and get insider tips about your legislator’s stance on marriage and other issues that came up during your meeting. Feedback about your visit and your day is really important!

Lodging and other details:

http://www.eqca.org/site/pp.asp?c=kuLRJ9MRKrH&b=4943147

Section 2: News

 

The CA state Supreme Court will hear oral arguments on March 5, and will then make a decision within 90 days on the validity of Prop 8 and 18,000 same-sex marriages.

 

Don't Divorce Us, a new video by the Courage Campaign, and a petition to the Supreme Court:

http://www.couragecampaign.org/page/s/divorce

 

Section 3: To Dos

 

tell-three.org

Tell 3 campaign:  That is, tell three people in your life about what marriage of same-sex couples means to you.  Choose someone who might not be completely supportive. Tell Three is about engaging the people whom we need to educate about the freedom to marry.

 

Get three people to join the Tell 3 campaign and talk to three people in their own lives about what marriage of same-sex couples means to them.  This action could not be more important to gaining a groundswell of support for marriage equality.

 

GetToKnowUsFirst.org

This is a terrific organization that has produced 30-second public interest TV announcements.  They need your support:  See the videos at:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GhpdcqNB3SY

 

 

Section 4: Useful Info

 

Why Isn’t Domestic Partnership (or Civil Union) Good Enough?

The New Jersey State Commission on Civil Unions was formed by the state legislature when it adopted the civil union law in 2006.  It issued a report based on 18 months of public meetings and the written or oral testimony of over 150 witnesses about the appropriateness of maintaining a separate civil status for same-sex couples. The Commission concluded that New Jersey should offer full marriage rights to same-sex couples.
(A commission studying civil unions in Vermont reached similar conclusions in April 2008.)

MAJOR DIFFERENCES Between Domestic Partnership or Civil Union and MARRIAGE

1) Why civil unions and domestic partnerships fail within the granting state, for example:

a)      SECOND-CLASS STATUS: The New Jersey Commission concluded that a separate legal structure can never be truly equal. It found that the state's use of a separate status to confer marriage-like benefits reinforced the "second-class status" of gays and lesbians, sending the message "that it is permissible to discriminate against them."

b)      NOT UNIVERSALLY UNDERSTOOD: Civil unions fail to capture the intangible benefits of marriage, which is a status that is "universally understood" and has a "powerful meaning." Civil unions, in contrast, are frequently misunderstood and undermined, the Commission found.  For example, Witnesses described situations "in which they were forced to explain their civil union status, what a civil union is, and how it is designed to be equivalent to marriage. These conversations include the indignities of having to explain the legal nature of their relationship, often in times of crisis.

c)      FORMS: Government, employer, or health care forms do not address or appropriately deal with the status of being in a civil union.

d)      CHILDREN: Children are worse off for their parents being consigned to civil union status, rather than afforded the status of marriage.  Health experts testified about the psychological harm that second-class systems can place on children being raised in same-sex families, especially those children who are themselves gay, lesbian, or transgender.

2) No federal benefits under DOMA, for example:

a)      TAXES: Couples must file separate federal tax returns

b)      IMMIGRATION: A civil union with a non-citizen does not affect the latter's immigration status

c)      SOCIAL SECURITY benefits to the surviving spouse, which are typically huge, are not provided

d)      INVALID IN ANOTHER STATE: Most states have passed statutes or constitutional amendments prohibiting the recognition by the state of same-sex marriage, even if validly celebrated elsewhere, so, for example, hospital visitation rights to an injured spouse in case of an automobile accident in another state would not necessarily be granted.

Other federal benefits

As of Dec 31, 2003, research of the USGAO identified a total of 1,138 federal statutory provisions classified to the U. S. Code in which marital status is a factor in determining or receiving benefits, rights, and privileges.

CATEGORY 1—SOCIAL SECURITY AND RELATED PROGRAMS, HOUSING, AND FOOD STAMPS

In many of these programs, recognition of the marital relationship is integral to the design of the program. For example, the law establishing the Old Age, Survivors, and Disability Insurance program (Social Security)

CATEGORY  2—VETERANS' BENEFITS

Include pensions, indemnity compensation for service-connected deaths, medical care, nursing home care, right to burial in veterans' cemeteries, educational assistance, and housing. Husbands or wives of veterans have many rights and privileges by virtue of the marital relationship.

CATEGORY  3—TAXATION

The distinction between married and unmarried status is pervasive in federal tax law; this is one of the largest categories, with 179 provisions.

CATEGORY  4—FEDERAL CIVILIAN AND MILITARY SERVICE BENEFITS

Typically these laws address the various health, leave, retirement, survivor, and insurance benefits provided by the United States to those in federal service and their families.

CATEGORY  5—EMPLOYMENT BENEFITS AND RELATED LAWS

The rights of employees under employer-sponsored employee benefit plans that provide for continuation of employer-sponsored health benefits after events like the death or divorce of the employee;

CATEGORY  6—IMMIGRATION, NATURALIZATION, AND ALIENS

Laws governing which non-citizens may enter and remain in the United States, be deported, etc.

CATEGORY  7—INDIANS

Right of a surviving spouse who is neither an Indian nor a member of the deceased spouse's tribe to elect a life estate in property that he or she is occupying at the time of the death of the other spouse.

CATEGORY  8—TRADE, COMMERCE, AND INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY

It permits spouses to file jointly for bankruptcy protection.

CATEGORY  9—FINANCIAL DISCLOSURE AND CONFLICT OF INTEREST

Employees or officers of the federal government confer rights to their spouses.

CATEGORY 10—CRIMES AND FAMILY VIOLENCE

Spouses as victims of crimes

CATEGORY 11—LOANS, GUARANTEES, AND PAYMENTS IN AGRICULTURE

Spouse's income and amount of benefits depends on marital status

CATEGORY 12—FEDERAL NATURAL RESOURCES AND RELATED LAWS

National battlefields, monuments, seashores, or parks that are donated or sold to the gov’t.  A person who donates one of these to the government can continue to live on the property until death, at which time that right passes on to the “married” spouse.  An unmarried spouse gets tossed off.

CATEGORY 13—MISCELLANEOUS

e.g., VFW have as one of their purposes to assist the widows and children of servicemen.  The 1,138 laws do not include every individual law in the U. S. Code in which marital status figures.  However, the GAO believes that the probability is high that it has identified those programs in the Code in which marital status is a factor.

 

Section 5: Summary of Findings from Equality Summit Conf.

Text Box: By age (voted Yes)Text Box: By Religion (voted Yes)Text Box: By Ethnicity (voted Yes)Proposition 8 Post-Election Calif, Voter Survey by David Binder Research,
Conducted November 6th - 16th, 2008  Sample
: 800 voters living in California who voted in the Nov 2008 election plus an additional oversample of 266 Asian, Latino, and African American voters.

 

Demographics

          Political ideology was the most important factor in vote for Prop 8.  22% of liberals voted yes on 8, compared to 51% of moderates and 82% of conservatives.

          Religion was next most-important factor:  voters who worship regularly were strongly more likely to support Prop 8 by a 70% to 30%, while those who worship less often voted 38% to 62% against Prop 8. 

          Blacks and Latinos who worship less than once a week opposed Prop 8.

What most influenced voters?  Discussions with friends, families and coworkers:   29%

This pool of voters opposed Proposition 8.

         Among the yes on 8 TV ads, the message that stood out was that Prop 8 will cause the teaching of same sex marriage in schools.

         The ads with Feinstein and Sam and Julia Thoron were statistically more likely to cause a no vote than were other ads.  Samuel L. Jackson’s History ad was also convincing.

The Obvious ones: The more education, the more NOs; The higher attendance at church, the more Yeses; The more conservative, the more Yeses; The more Republican, the more Yeses; 86% of McCain voters voted Yes, while 30% of Obama voters voted yes; 5% of LGBT voters voted Yes!

Of Yes voters: 48% know LGBT persons; 60% don’t (think they) know LGBT persons


-- 
You gotta give them hope.
-- Harvey Milk




Subject: OCEC Why Marriage Matters
Date: Sat, 7 Feb 2009 01:49:34 -0800
From: Elizabeth Aversa <elizabethaversa@hotmail.com>
References: <7d947ac80902062239j726c8354jdf61ab7a9f794054@mail.gmail.com>



Hello All, 

Please follow this link to OCECs submission to a youtube contest dealing with the theme "marriage matters". You'll recognize some familiar faces :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-FVCsNc2HM

Please be sure to rate it - the more ratings we have the better our chances of winning! So watch, rate, repost it and repeat!!


From: elizabethaversa@hotmail.com
Subject: ***FREEDOM TO MARRY DAY - DATE CHANGED!!!
Date: Fri, 30 Jan 2009 13:41:37 -0800

THE DATE HAS CHANGED TO FEBRUARY 13th!!!

 

****FEB 13 - MARRIAGE COUNTER ACTIONS****

On National Freedom to Marry Day, Thursday, February 12, 2009, at local marriage counters in cities all over the country, same-sex couples will request marriage licenses at their local County Clerk's Offices to raise awareness of the harms and impact that the inability to marry causes on their families. This national event is hosted yearly by Marriage Equality USA (MEUSA) and this year they have asked Join the Impact for our help to make this their largest Marriage Counter Action yet

 

OCEC will be at the Old County Courthouse

211 West Santa Ana Blvd,

Santa Ana, CA 92701

Starting at 12pm – 4:30pm

 

Will have same-sex couples go in to the Courthouse to apply for a marriage license, as we are denied, we will stand in solidarity and protest. Please bring signs that show support for our cause. Good examples are “It’s everyone’s right to get married” “Show love, Get Married” “A Civil Union isn’t Good Enough” “Equal Love, Equal Rights”

 

For more information or questions please contact:

 

Elizabeth Aversa

OCEC Activism Chair

elizabethaversa@hotmail.com


Subject: ***OCEC ACTIVISM EVENTS*** We need YOU!!!
Date: Sat, 24 Jan 2009 00:55:49 -0800
From: Elizabeth Aversa <elizabethaversa@hotmail.com>


FEB 12 - MARRIAGE COUNTER ACTIONS
On National Freedom to Marry Day, Thursday, February 12, 2009, at local marriage counters in cities all over the country, same-sex couples will request marriage licenses at their local County Clerk's Offices to raise awareness of the harms and impact that the inability to marry causes on their families. This national event is hosted yearly by Marriage Equality USA (MEUSA) and this year they have asked Join the Impact for our help to make this their largest Marriage Counter Action yet

OCEC will be at the Old County Courthouse

211 West Santa Ana Blvd,

Santa Ana, CA 92701

Starting at 12pm – 4:30pm

Will have same-sex couples go in to the Courthouse to apply for a marriage license, as we are denied, we will stand in solidarity and protest. Please bring signs that show support for our cause. Good examples are “It’s everyone’s right to get married” “Show love, Get Married” “A Civil Union isn’t Good Enough” “Equal Love, Equal Rights”

 

Obama Signature Drive Extended to Feb 14th
We are still counting signatures from the Open Letter Signature Drive. We know that we're CLOSE to 1 Million, but weather issues stopped 10 huge cities from having their events on the 10th of January. We want to ensure that EVERYONE's voice and signature is counted. Because of this, we are extending our signature drive to February 14th and will get the signatures to Obama the minute Congress goes into session! Currently, we have so many signature sheets, that the stack is over 5 feet high!!!! Talk about a visual IMPACT!

If you have not signed the open letter to Obama, you can print one on your own and have family and friends sign it. Please go to www.jointheimpact.wetpaint.com to print the signature sheets.

 

On Tuesday January 27th Elizabeth Aversa (Activism Chair) will be on the Fullerton College campus from 1pm – 4pm collecting signatures. If you would like to help please email Elizabethaversa@hotmail.com

 

EQUALITY ON CAMPUS DAY! January 27th
NATIONWIDE STUDENT RALLY/FUNDRAISER

FOR MARRIAGE EQUALITY

Equality on campus Day is an event for high school and college students across the country to raise awareness for LGBT rights, particularly marriage equality. Students will wear the same shirt to school on January 27th to raise visibility. Sometime during the day, each school will have their participating students meet for a group picture. Group pictures will then be submitted to school yearbooks and newsletters. Please go to www.studentsforequality.com

 

For more information on any of the above events or to become apart of the Activism committee please contact:

Elizabeth Aversa

OCEC Activism Chair

elizabethaversa@hotmail.com


Subject: OverturningProp8: IMPORTANT NEW Parking Info--Peaceful Rally at Saddleback Church WILL take place as scheduled on Sunday, Jan 18 @ 10:30am
Date: Fri, 16 Jan 2009 17:27:49 -0800
From: Harvey Liss <harveybronx@cox.net>
To: <harveybronx@cox.net>


IMPORTANT PARKING INFORMATION for Sunday, Jan 18, PEACEFUL rally at Saddleback Church:  To enable us to park legally, the Sheriff Department, which has been wonderfully cooperative and supportive, will cover the no-parking signs making it legal to park on:

 

>>> El Toro Rd, Both sides from Portola Pkwy, West for a half-mile to Normandale Dr.  [El Toro Rd is the next intersection traveling South from the church.]

 

>>> El Toro Rd, South side, from Portola Pkwy, East to Marguerite (in front of the apartments).

 

Avoid parking in the shopping center across Portola from the church.  If you get the shopkeepers upset, your vehicle is liable to get towed.  Let’s be good neighbors.

 

BRING:  Water, hat, sunscreen, signs (if you have).  If not, don’t worry.

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Late-Breaking Meeting of high interest:

Saturday, Jan. 17, 1pm, Irvine, Orange County Equality Coalition (OCEC)

Irvine United Congregational Church, 4915 Alton Parkway, Irvine, CA 92604 / www.iucc.org

Guest speaker: STEVE YOUNG: "A Mormon's Observations on Prop 8"

More details, below under EVENTS.  For further information: ocequality@gmail.com, 714-225-4656

 

 

Equality for ALL!This is to confirm that the important protest at Saddleback Church, previously announced for Sunday, Jan 18, will take place as scheduled—details below the horizontal line.

 

However, it is not to focus on President-Elect Obama’s selection of Pastor Rick Warren to perform the Inaugural Invocation; it is rather to protest Rick Warren’s public statement that he thinks same-sex marriage is equivalent to incest, pederasty and polygamy, his strong support for Prop 8, and his other anti-gay activity.

 

The timing is to achieve maximum exposure before his trip to D.C.  It is to pressure Rick Warren to retract his horribly demeaning statements about same-sex relationships, and to teach him and his congregation that same-sex relationships are the equal of opposite-sex relationships in their value to the individuals involved, to family life, to raising children, and to society, and must be accorded equal rights according to our Federal and State Constitutions.

 

Although Obama announced that “out” Episcopal Bishop Gene Robinson will be delivering the kick-off invocation on Sunday, 1/18, at the Lincoln Memorial, that is a considerably more secondary role compared to the swearing-in ceremony that Rick Warren will participate in, and the meaning it conveys by someone who is opposed to equal rights for gays and lesbians.

 

There is a cleansing campaign going on now where online videos of Rick’s offensive remarks and materials are being deleted and edited.  Fortunately, the link immediately below contains some of that.

 

THIS IS THE LINK THAT HAS IT ALL:  To raise your ire, following is a link to an amazing video of Rick Warren’s own statements that contradict each other, and other hardly-believeable activities, presented in lively reportage by Rachel Maddow.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?aq=f&emb=0&eurl=http%3A%2F%2Fvideo.google.com%2Fvideosearch%3Fq%3DRick+Warren%2Bpedophiles&v=Fa3rJJWjcHE

 

UNFORTUNATELY, the following link to the complete interview of Rick Warren that appeared on “Beliefnet” (sections were extracted for Rachel’s video) during which he said that same-sex marriage is equivalent to incest, etc., HAS BEEN REMOVED.  I had watched it several times.  When asked if he supported domestic partnership or civil unions, he even dismissed those terms with a wave of his hand.

http://www.beliefnet.com/Video/Beliefnet-Interviews/Rick-Warren/Rick-Warren-

 

ANOTHER DELETION: The same interview available on YouTube has just been edited. The end of the interview, which contained Rick’s offensive statements about same-sex relationships has been deleted.  The part remaining is where he says he "loves" gays.

I hope someone has retained a copy of this interview.

 

MORE CLEANSING:  Below is a webpage from the Saddleback Church website that was removed after the uproar over Rick’s selection.  How more explicitly anti-gay can one be?

 

 

See you Sunday!

 

Harvey Liss

ECCO Vice-chair

PFLAG Board Member

 

EVENTS

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Please come to our first meeting of the New Year!

Saturday, Jan. 17, 1pm, Irvine, Orange County Equality Coalition (OCEC)

Irvine United Congregational Church, 4915 Alton Parkway, Irvine, CA 92604 / www.iucc.org   For further information: ocequality@gmail.com, 714-225-4656

 

Guest speaker: STEVE YOUNG: "A Mormon's Observations on Prop 8"

Steve is a progressive Mormon who twice ran for Democratic Congressmember for the 48th District (O.C.)

 

Steve will talk about the inside perspective of the Mormon Church and the push to pass prop 8.  He will also speak personally as a Mormon who opposed the passage of Prop 8, and what that meant to him and his campaign.  Please join us to hear this unique perspective about the battle to defeat Prop 8.

 

BRING A FRIEND...OR TWO!

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Sunday, January 18, - Lake Forest, Saddleback Church, 1 Saddleback Parkway

 

The following three rallies at Saddleback Church are organized by three different organizations.  [A fourth rally organized by Soulforce and Atticus Circle that required a pre-action briefing and ordering of t-shirts has been postponed ‘till the spring.]  A fifth group from Northern California arriving by bus is also expected.

 

10:30am:  PEACEFUL PROTEST in front of Saddleback Church before Rick Warren appears at the inaugural in Washington, DC.  This protest will remind the world who Rick Warren is and that 48% of us do not agree with the destruction of California’s Constitution to deny fundamental rights to a minority.  Lies that flowed like a river of acid from Rick Warren’s lips comparing our families to pedophiles and incest were reckless and we shall never forget.  These lies were told by Rick Warren, a man that claims to be a Christian while carrying out the work of a devil.  Wrapping oneself in the cloth to defame our family is not acceptable.

 

We will let the world know that we are FIRST-CLASS CITZENS with a second-class government.  Like all good citizens we provide for our families, donate our time and resources to our families, friends and neighbors, often strangers that need a helping hand, serve in the military and are law-abiding, productive members of society.  Rick Warren cannot stop love from happening. To quote Dr. King, “The truth shall set us free.”

 

If you are lesbian or gay, bring appropriate homemade signs to self-identify, and let the world know that we are productive citizens from all walks of life, such as Child Care Providers, Doctors, Lawyers, Peace Officers, Pastors, etc.  Bring your well-adjusted children and other family members.  [Maybe, you should leave your dogs and cats home, lest the congregants and the media get the wrong idea.]

 

If you are a “straight” ally, bring a sign that so-identifies yourself as a supporter of same-sex relationships (for lesbians and gays) and of marriage equality.

 

For more information call 949-683-2715.

 

11am – 2pm: PEACEFUL PROTEST at Anti-Gay Pastor Rick Warren's Church!

Let anti-gay Pastor Rick Warren see us before he goes to D.C. for the inauguration!

 

Organized by: ALLorNotAtAll.org

 

Evangelical Pastor Rick Warren has been invited by President-Elect Obama to deliver the invocation at the Presidential Inauguration. Rick Warren is one of the most unabashed anti-gay religious leaders in the country.  He has compared same-sex couples that wanted to get married to child molesters and polygamists, and he has a congregation of over 20,000 people who listen to his message.  He is quoted as saying that "there is no reason to change the universal, historical definition of marriage to appease 2 percent of our population."

 

We are going to hold a peaceful protest outside his church the Sunday before he delivers the invocation in D.C. to let him know that we are not some radical, crazy fringe group that is merely looking to be appeased!  It is time for us to go stand outside his homophobic bubble and show him the harm that he is causing. Show him that he cannot use religion and the Bible as a weapon.  Show him that we are not child molesters and we don't believe in incest.  Show him that we are also kind, decent humans who deserve the same treatment in the eyes of the law as every member of his congregation!

 

This isn't going to be an angry protest where we scream at an empty church in the middle of the week. This is a peaceful event where we will stand there and make all the congregants see that we are completely worthy of equality and respect!

 

Just to be clear, this is not a protest against all Evangelicals at all. This is a protest in front of one man's congregation to let him know that his views and his pulpit are causing great harm to his fellow humans.

 

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Suggestion to reduce the Nielsen Ratings during Warren’s invocation

 

Turn on – Tune out – Drop Warren

 

TURN ON THE INAUGURATION and CHANGE THE CHANNEL ON WARREN

(turn the TV off during the time he is scheduled to speak and/or listen to the radio for a few minutes to hear when he is done)

TURN ON WHEN WARREN IS DONE.

 

Since the 1920s the Nielsen Ratings have evolved into being the television industry standard to determine viewer preferences and consumer likes and dislikes.  It a powerful tool, which ultimately decides what and who we see on television.  We don’t know who the Nielsen viewers are, but everyone’s opinion matters to programmers.  Other viewers are also tracked in various ways. Together we can reach them and protest this outrage.

 

This is about their bottom line. Get the message out – make it go viral.

 

Email it, Twitter it, text it, Facebook it, network it – radiate psychic thought waves.